What's happening

Well, so much has happened.
My sister left her boyfriend of course. So now he calls all the time. He has the cell phone that my Mom got for my sister. Well I should say had. He doesn't have it anymore.

So starting last week he constantly called. Jennifer went to visit, taking the kids. He wants to see his kids. More importantly he wants to see her. He wanted to go camping last Friday. Well they didn't go. Thank God! It has been raining practically non-stop. So since he had been calling constantly Mom said he didn't need to have the phone only to harass her. Thursday night he got arrested. I know I've mentioned before that he doesn't have a valid driver's license. His license is suspended. He ran a red light and was speeding. Duh, you get pulled over for that. They didn't keep him in jail, they had too many real prisoners down there. (He can't even get sent to jail properly!) So Friday my Mom and sister went and got his car because it was impounded. Yes, they let him have it. Then he continued calling her. She told him that she wasn't going to console him because he got caught doing something illegal.

Saturday was no different, he kept calling. When she stopped answering her cell phone, work cell, He started calling our house phone. He's been told not to do this, He's been told if he does, his cell will be disconnected. Basically, we shouldn't have to talk to him. He kept calling, he was warned every time, his phone got shut off. So he went to the pay phone down the street and continued to call, begging for his cell to be turned back on. My little sister, Jax, picked up the phone and politely asked him to stop calling. There was a dispute about if he would actually get to see his kids that day. She said he could, but she wasn't staying. He would have the kids, the kids alone. Of course he whined some more.

She took the kids over and Jax went with them. She left the kids and came straight home. Then only 40 minutes later, he called whining for her to pick the kids up. She had told him if he was too upset maybe she shouldn't leave them, but he said it was fine. She went back to get them and then there was more whining about reactivating the cell. You know because what if he got pulled over again and had to call someone! Whatever.......So there was a fight, and screaming, Jax was waiting in the car so she went in to see if the kids were ok. Of course he went off on her too. He accused her of cussing him out. Uh, yeah, right in front of our mother she would cuss him out over the phone, unlikely. If you know my family, you know you don't cuss in front of our mother. She finds it highly offensive, since Jax is 15 she can punish her for it. Jax wouldn't be there if she had cussed him out. Of course he resorted to name calling. He called her a fat bitch. Great thing to say to an insecure 15 year old girl. He said if he couldn't have the cell phone no one could, how mature, he threw it at the wall or the floor, not important, but it's broken now. He also said they couldn't take the kids back, He was going to keep them. Finally he let Jennifer take Noah, the newborn. Then she left and then was called back to take Zeke. He said, WAH WAH, I DON'T HAVE ENOUGH DIAPERS OR CLOTHES FOR HIM. WAH, WAH! He's such a baby.

Jennifer asked Jax to not tell anyone what happened. Especially with the phone.
Monday Jax had her ex-boyfriend, John, over. They are still friends, except that he wants to constantly bring up the relationship thing. Dude needs to get with the program, he's gonna dump her three times and then try and get her to take him back again? I told her sometimes it's not in the cards to be friends. Or maybe someday you can be friends with him, just not now. She's still young trying to figure these things out. Jennifer came to me and said, I can't understand why she'll let him come over. Later Jax said that John had never seen Barry (Jennifer's loser) before. I asked her when he had and she said when Barry dropped of Jennifer and the kids earlier that day. Which Jennifer hadn't and wasn't going to mention to me. (John said, "He wasn't wearing a shirt, this troubles me." John's a good kid.) None of my business, I don't really care, obviously she thinks there is something wrong with being with him if she's going to pretend it doesn't happen.

Then Jax said that Jennifer and Barry were negotiating yesterday, Tuesday, about Barry taking the kids for the day. Jax said he said maybe he'd take them somewhere and not tell her where. Jennifer said then he couldn't have them and he relented I guess.

Last night I refused to let Jennifer use my car to get to work. I told her I needed to have gas money up front which she didn't have so she rode her bike to work and then Barry picked her up and brought her home. Then he took the kids. I asked her if this was such a good idea since Saturday he wasn't going to let her take them back and yesterday he threatened to take them somewhere secret. She said he never threatened to take the kids away.

So who do I believe? My 15 year old sister who trust me wouldn't make this up or my older sister who is a liar. It's true I've caught her in more lies than I can count. This is spanning our entire lives.
Anyway, that's where it's at now.